Vander stared at Fabian for a long quiet moment as he tried to determine the other man's age. He was, after all, clearly missing something about the dynamic that was happening here, and he suspected it might be age related? Or perhaps experience related?

"I have four kids. I know approximately where they are and what they are doing on any given day. If they were gone for long stretches and I didn't know where they were at, I would be concerned and probably look for them." Yet, he knew parents that didn't know the location of their children for days on end. Or weren't well enough to care.