Most people don't. They hear the name or realize you've come from money, and they make assumptions. My mom tried to make sure my sister and I knew we could do more by helping others. I'd rather be poor and know that I was able to save someone, than be rich and only care about myself.

I don't do anonymous so much, just accepted a better name and position for myself.

[Some might think she could have picked a better mentor, but she has been good for him as well.]

And you don't get to pick your parents. You can pick your family, though, and I've been lucky to have some great friends and family now.